A. Who do you like and why?
Boyfriend and because he makes me happy
B. Have you ever been in love? And if yes, how many times and how did you know it was love?
Yes I have, and I am. Counting this time I've been in love twice. I think you know you're in love when you feel a piece of you is missing when the other person isn't with you. When you're day doesn't seem complete without seeing them. And when you would allow your heart to crumble if it meant they would be happy.
C. Longest relationship you've ever been in and why did it end?
Longest continuous relationship would be the one I'm in which is currently 6 months.
D. Have you ever changed for someone, and if yes how?
I guess in someways yes. I gave up parts of myself for Him. My wants for my future changed to match Hims. I did things I said I would never do or was against. But the other side of that is that I changed BECAUSE of Him. And I'm still not, nor do I think I will ever be, back to the way I was before Him.
E. Pretend I'm your ex, what do you want to say to me?
Honestly I think I've said everything. I've voiced my thoughts and feelings all I could.
F. Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes I have. It's the worst thing I've gone through to this day.
G. Have you ever cheated?
Like I've said on here before, it would depend on your definition of the word. According to my definition, no.
H. Would you date someone who was known for cheating, and if yes, why?
I would say no. Though I've gone back to someone who has cheated on me before and has cheated on someone else with me so idk if I could honestly say no. If it was anyone else though probably not. I don't wanna set myself up for the pain again
I. What's the most important part of a relationship?
To me the most important part is being able to have fun, to enjoy each other's presence. If you can't do that then it's not gonna work out.
J. Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
Serious relationships. Now I'll admit I've wanted to just go out meet someone and have fun. But that's pointless. I'm not gonna waste my time with someone if the relationship will go nowhere. I will only date people if I think that we could go the distance.
K. When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
I think the phrase going on a beak is made fun of but I don't think it's ridiculous. Sometimes you have to have space from people and that's not a bad thing.
L. How many people have you ever just hooked up with?
Nope
M. What's one thing you regret saying, not saying, doing, not doing, in a previous relationship?
In all past relationships I regret by being completely honest with how I was feeling about the relationship even if the other person wouldn't have liked what I had to say. I regret not loving myself and letting other people take the reigns. I regret maybe not pushing more to have promises followed through by him and letting it slide.
N. What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
When they feel ready. I think whenever you have someone that you really love and they love you then it's okay as long as you know the fact that you are giving them you're body for the time being. I'm probably not the person to take any advice on waiting to have sex cause I didn't care about my virginity at all. It was not a big deal to have it and I don't understand why people make it such a big deal. Grow up people.
O. Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"? why or why not?
This depends i guess. I do not believe in "you're too young to know what love is" love happens when it happens and there's no time for it. That phrase doesn't make sense because we know what love is from the time we're little loving our mommy and daddy. We're humans and we're made to love. With age is just a number, I think that it's true for the most part because I dont think it matters how old you are, what matters is how mature you are.
P. What about "love at first sight"? Why or why not?
I don't know at first sight because I have to know the persons personality, so I don't think you can fall in love just by laying eyes on a person for the first time but I think that there can be a huge attraction like a magnetic pull to a person that'll make you feel like you just have to get to know that person.
Q. Turn on's?
In shape, attractive laugh, good sense of humor, good hair.
R. Turn off's?
Hairy. Being full of them self, being needy, being out of shape (I know that sounds awful but I don't care)
S. What do you consider a deal breaker?
Not having a good sense of humor.
T. How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When you spend more time having to apologize, fix things, arguing, worrying about saying or doing the wrong thing, or hurting, than enjoying your time with the person.
U. Are you currently in a relationship? If yes, how long? If no, how long have you been single?
Yes I am and we've been together for 6 months.
V. Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
I absolutely think they can but it is a lot more work, I know from experience. But as long as you put the amount of effort in that it requires then it can work. But depending on how stein your feelings were for the person, you should be prepared for there to be some pain along the way.
W. Do you think people should date their friends?
I think so. There's a reason you are friends so you obviously enjoy each others company, and if you have a strong friendship then it can withstand you trying to see if you are compatible romantically. And if it doesn't work out that you are, then you won't lose anything as a friend. Just make sure you know how strong you're friendship is before you test it.
X. How many relationships have you had?
6 I think.
Y. Do you think love can last forever?
I think that if you honestly and truly love someone then a part of you will love them forever.
Z. Do you think love can conquer all things?
Just because you love someone doesn't mean that your relationship is gonna be perfect. I do believe that love CAN conquer all things with effort put into it. My mirror in my room right now actually says "Amor vincit omnico" which is love conquers all in Italian.
1. Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
My parents hated and despised Him, and they still do. But that never changed anything.
2. If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
Don't give all of your heart to anyone. Keep a part of it to yourself. So when that person leaves and takes all the rest of you with them, while you're lying on the floor, you can hold onto that little piece and know that you still have something. And you can use that piece to love yourself and you can strengthen that piece and water it and feed it and nurture it till it grows into something new and even more beautiful then what you had before.
3. Do you think long distance relationships can work? Why or why not?
This is another thing i think can work as long as you put all the effort that is necessary to make it work.
4. What do you notice first about another person?
That depends on the person. The first thing I notice about men is their ring finger to see if they're married. Idk why I do that but I do. The first thing I notice about girls is how much makeup they have on and how full of themselves they seem. And the first thing in notice about guys is how in shape and fit they are.
5. What advice would you give your future son or daughter regarding relationships and love?
Follow your heart. There will be bumps and aches and pains and tears along they way, it's inevitable. Pick yourself up and never give up on something you believe in.
